silence is deafening…

Is it me or does silence sometimes say WAY more than words? And have more of an impact… 

When someone is disappointed with you or perhaps even angry and instead of saying anything they are so hurt that they don’t have words to ‘give’ you..

Being able to sit next to someone you really like/love intimately or perhaps even just a friend and being able to be comfortable being silent for hours and it not being awkward silence…

On your wedding day or on just a date, you staring into someone else’s eyes for a long period without saying  a single word and just sharing that moment with that person and being able to feel the love without words.

Yes of course your non verbal expressions do the talking

I started thinking about this because i remember writing in the sms to the guy from the past two posts (yes i am classy…but the situation is fucked messed up) what i thought and that he didn’t have to write back… and he hasn’t yet… silence… and that silence says something…

he is just not that into you… but then there it comes…

what if you misinterpret a persons’ silence? Silence can be deadly… it is the words that you don’t say that mean the most… 

 

 

 

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