How do you stop loving someone?
Everytime I witness a break-up, I can’t help but ask the party’s involved how they all of a sudden stop loving someone. Then it happened to me and I still don’t understand how you stop loving someone. In most cases, it is not stopping but letting go is easier…easier to explain to your family and friends… that just doesn’t make sense to me… if you really love someone, you work your ass off to make it work because there is barely anything such as a perfect relationship. When my partner broke up with me, I wanted him to explain to me how he could let go so easily. But he refused to answer… I was at wits end an still there he was refusing to answer. Then it hit me, I don’t want his kind of love and that I am better off with me, myself and I and that I am happy with my culture where we fight to the end and can’t conform to his.